Wednesday, May 14, 2014

Re: [CROMA] Re: Update // Child Abuse case in a Play School

 

mr ashish kumar i agree with u.........its for wat only school should be ashamed for..........n not the innocent family.......b4 keeping ny staff in school proper police verification is must........n as all knw now dere r many rules for children and women now.......school authorities should tell the staff regarding that.......its our duty as many ppl r not aware for such crimes n rules i mean ipc's........now laws changed and its zero tolerance for us.......

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On Wed, 5/14/14, Ashish Kumar ashish.kr3@gmail.com [CrossingsRepublikOwnersAndMembersAssociation-CROMA] <CrossingsRepublikOwnersAndMembersAssociation-CROMA@yahoogroups.co.in> wrote:

Subject: [CROMA] Re: Update // Child Abuse case in a Play School
To: "CROMA Updates" <cromaupdates@gmail.com>
Cc: "cromaexecutivebody@googlegroups.com" <cromaexecutivebody@googlegroups.com>, "Sandeep Singh" <contacttosandy@googlemail.com>, "Xing-Future@googlegroups.com" <Xing-Future@googlegroups.com>, "<residentsggv@googlegroups.com>" <residentsggv@googlegroups.com>, "RWA PanchsheelWellington" <rwapanchsheelwellington@gmail.com>, CrossingsRepublikOwnersAndMembersAssociation-CROMA@yahoogroups.co.in, crossings-republik@yahoogroups.com
Date: Wednesday, May 14, 2014, 10:11 AM


 









I am
disturbed with this mail from CROMA.. what kind of a society
we are making here... Do we want and encourage that - One by
one whosoever face such crime against their family and loved
ones should hide his/her face under the burden of shame and
guilt...we as a society do nothing but burden the victim
with guilt and shame!! Who should be shameful?? This society
should feel the shame, that school should feel the shame,
that culprit should feel the shame and not that innocent
child and her family... 


Can we
break this toxic burden of guilt and shame that VICTIM is
burdened with??? 
Probably yes, but by communicating, by
standing together, by a show of solidarity, by openly
expressing ourselves with our fellow society members and
certainly NOT by confining ourselves. This mail from CROMA
is worrisome, disturbing and to some sense disgusting as it
is advising against the idea of standing
together. 


Please not
that candle light march is not just an expression of anger
and solidarity against this particular case, this is the
expression of our collectivity and solidarity to show all
that we are all standing together against any of such
crimes. We need to give this message to ourselves and to all
the members, believe me this is a very meaningful
message.


Also
disturbing is the fact that this mail from CROMA came with
the attachment that is the appeal from the
school!!! 


Why CROMA
made itself as the platform for the school appeal, can the
executive body tell us please.





On Wed,
May 14, 2014 at 11:04 AM, CROMA Updates <cromaupdates@gmail.com>
wrote:


With
last 3-4 days activity on this issue by a group of ppl,
parent of the Victim are very
worried and today morning they informed that things are not
going in
right direction shared their concern that now its difficult
for them to hide their identity.

CROMA
respect view of parent of victim and doesn't wish to
disclose the identity of the parent
and also request other residents to please avoid any act
including proposed candle march, which shall
create situation of panic with the parent of the child. 





Dear Residents,

 

This
is just to inform you that last week a case of Nursery
child sexual
harassment was reported at a Play School at Crossings
Republik. An FIR has been
lodged by the parents of child in this regard and currently
the accused
person is in Dasna Jail, Ghaziabad.

 

Team
members of CROMA met the parents and have
extended full support to the parent. CROMA also met the
school
administration and the
SHO, Vijay Nagar. The "CROMA Safety & Security
Committee" is already monitoring this incident very
closely. There is no
doubt that this is really a shocking incident and the
accused, if found
guilty, should be punished with the severest of punishment
prescribed by
law and also action required to avoid similar incident in
future. 




In this type of case for any
action we need to take action considering
following.

1)
What Parent want and thing are happening as per that or
not



2)
What is required to be done by School and that has happened
or not.3)
What action required from Police and is there any deviation
from that.






 




Mr.

Tanweer, CROMA Vice President is in regular touch with
parent, Police
& School and doing the necessary follow up. As far as
parent are
concerned they are in deep shock and want accused to be
punished however
same time issue & their identity should not be made
public. With
last 3-4 days activity on this issue by a group of ppl,
parent of the Victim are very
concerned and today morning they informed that things are
not going in
right direction.


CROMA respect view of parent of
victim and doesn't wish to disclose the identity of the
parents
and also request other residents to please avoid any act
including proposed candle march, which shall
create situation of panic with the parents of the child. 


 



School
administration has informed that they were not aware of the
incident
and no complain was made to them. They came to know about
this incident
only when they received call from Police Station. They are
ready to
support the investigation in all respect. They have also
issued a
clarification which is attached herewith.





Police has already arrested the
culprit and as per SHO
Mr. Hardayal Yadav action is being taken as per law if any
one is
willing to facilitate investigation they should come forward
and help
them or for any other action written complaint to be given
with
evidence.






Things are moving as expected
and
school administration also agreed to take corrective action,
such as,  installing the CCTV Cameras, appointing only
female staff and other suggestions as per the parents
meeting so that this kind
of incidents are not repeated and are such situations are
severely dealt with
in future.

 We further request the parents,
whose child is or children
are going to school, to be vigilant in this regard. Team
CROMA itself adopts zero
tolerance in this regard and request you to inform of any
such incident, if
taking place.

 

In
the meanwhile, CROMA is planning to come up with a guideline
for
all the Play Schools and Crèches running inside the
township to ensure that
such incident do not take place at any level.

Regards,



Team CROMA














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